Some words for saim
Sweet Memories:
Muje personally aisa feel hota h k hubby wife me bahot jhagde ego k vajah se hote mtlb har bar hubby ki chalegi meri nai chalegi ya
Mai apne man ki malik
Mai. Kisi ki gulam nai hu
Mai jisse chahu bat kru shadi ki h naukar nhi hu jaise
Wife apne chalane ki koshish krti zid krti q ke usko feel hota h ke uska existence khtm ho rha jab k aisa nahi hai
Hubby sochta h ghar ka sab mai krta sab meri sune koi kuch na bole bus mai malik meri chalegi aise aise me dono me drad ajati hai
Kuch hubby wife ek dusre ki bat bina wajah katte hai aur wrong prove krne m mehnat krte phir chahe akele ho ya kisi k samne
Kuch ladies jan bujh kar backanswer krti h aur kehti mai galat nahi seh skti lekin wo bhul jati ne usey khana peena uske health ka khyal sab ek admi krta hai aur wo uska malik b h aur supritendent b aur jab wife apne be lagaam zban use krti to phir mar b khati h
Ego ka mtlb attitude nai hota hubby wife ke relationship m ego ka mtlb h jhuk jana hubby aksar jhukna psnd nahi krta aur wife ko hi jhukna pdta to relationship healthy rehti but jaha wife ego m rhe mai q jhuki mai q khud se sorry kahu nai q bat kru meri galti nai jaise soche to waha wo hubby ke dil se utar jati yaha tk m hubby usse nfrat krta h
Relationship m hone bad agar dono m narazgi ho to b sath rehna h lekin phir wo narazgi gusse ka vajh banti jo slow poison m change hoti h phir wo ekduje ko preshan krte aur neecha dikhate bat cut krte aur phir Nafrat paida hoti to gali shuru hoti then hath uthana phur alag
Relationship ki gadi ko ache se chalane ke lie ek ko recessive banna pdega aur aur ko dominant tb dono ache se rhege but jaha dono hi apna dimag lagaye to gadi na idhar chalegi na udhar bus apas m uljhege islie
Agar do shyane relationship m hai to
Kisi ek ko sacrifice krna pdta
Dono sacrifice krte smjhdar dikhate usually ye love marriage m hota h
Aise mahol m bacha ho to wo baghi ho jata h q ke wife hubby ko jawab nai de skti to bacho ke dimag m poison bhar deti h jisse bachhe bap k b nai hote na ma se zyada attach rehte aise do logo ke ego se family barbad ho jati h
Hubby aur papa ko equal rkhe to bahot sari baaten smjh ayegi jaise papa ke samne jawab dete kia nai waise hubby b apka leader h jawab do to jawab aur buri trah milega
Aur agar chup rho aur bat suno chahe achi lage na laage to hubby apse khush rhega
Har admi apne ghar m raja hota h aur wife bache uski prja q ke wo rat din unki hi liye kam krta hai khoon paseena bahata hai to wo haq se dantta h pyar b krta h kabhi gussa dikhata hai aur bacho ko to itna nahi lekin wife ko wo age peeche hi rkhna chahta h aise me agr wife pe chahe to kitne b restrictions laga deta h jaisee
Admi sochta h wife Usk Ghar walo se chugli krti hogi islie call band
Wife ko koi behkata h jhagda krne islie ana jana band
Wife ko koi chede nai islie loose dress jo hubby ko psnd ho
Apne. Psmd ke dress pehmata h q ke wo uski doll hoti h
Apne mrzi ki har bat pe han kehne lagata hai aur b baht kuch aur wife ko manna zaruri b h majburi b
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Jab tk apke pass koi purse nai ata ap bar bar usey dekhogi
Jo dress achi lagegi bar bar dekhogi
Lekin jab le lo to ab satisfy ho jaogi
Aur do ten bar pehanna bad dil bhar jata
Ab usme kami dikhne lagti h
Obviously jo cheez pass hogi usme kami dikhegi hi
Q ke hum usey observe krte h
Bus aise hi insan ka b h
Jab sath ho to burai dikhti h aur choti choti bat bahot badi lagti h
Lekin jab wo chor jate tb dunya se compare krne pe ek ek khubi dikhti
Muje apse kabhi problem nhi hua bus apke back answer gusse aur mai mai pe chidh jata hu
Apki zid pe b gussa nahi hua
Galat kaha?
Jab shadi hone wali hoti h
To dono ek dusre se chatting call krte ghumne jate
Lekin shadi bad jhagde q hote
Q ke wo full time ek. Dusre ke pass hote
Insan achhai me b burai dhund letaa h kuch time bad
Ab wohi wife ko dekh kr chid chid krega
But agar wife ne
Apne body se aur apne zban se dil jeet lia to admi apna sab kuch de deta h
Body aur achi zban
Phir chalak dimag aurat b yahi krti
Meethi meethi baten krke admi ko bewakuf bna leti
Agar ek wife apne hubby ko gusse me dkh kr b pyar se bat kre
To wo jo hath uthane wala hota to gusse se dekh kr thanda ho jayga
Agar wo gali dena wala hota to kam level ka kuch khega
Insan ki aur aurat ki zaban ka Sahi use zaruri hai
Apse khane me koi galti hhu
Hubby gussa kre aap b kro
To kia result ayega?
Hubby gusse me ho aur aap jawab do to kia hoga phir
Bus yahi hota hamare beech
Hubby dominant h
Agar ap gussa kro to wo aur zyada krega aur usey koi roke ga b nai
Even apke parents b chup ho jayege
Q ke wo apka supritendent h
Apko khilana pilana ghumna firana pehna a sab uski zimmedari
Ab wo apki care kre love b kre aur khushh rkhe lekin wo jis kam m khush hota apse kahe krne ap na kro to kiaa krega?
Usually yahi hota
Like ke koi admi apne family ke lie caring h
Wife se kahe meri behn ko gift dena h to wife mana kre to hubby kia keega
Mai kama rha main tujhe pal tha mujh se zban chalayegi
Phir wo ajata h badle pe chal dekhta hu ab tuje aur wo jena ha aram krdega
Aise hi agar wo sxc k lie kahe to krne padega wo kitna hi smjhdar ho ek se dusri bar compromise krega hi nahi q ke usse usey happiness milti h
Agsr wife nakhre kre to wo shuru shuru me pyar se mnayega lekin bad me force b kr skta h jisey marital rape Kehte h
Agar wife ready na ho to wo usey taunts marega
Uske ghar walo ke samne ulta sedha bolega har jaga insult
Aur wo puri koshish krega ke wife ko uski worth bataye
Aur wife ki worth hubby se hi hoti
Hubby support na kre to koi value nai h
Gussa se buri chez hoti h badla
Muje personally aisa feel hota h k hubby wife me bahot jhagde ego k vajah se hote mtlb har bar hubby ki chalegi meri nai chalegi ya
Mai apne man ki malik
Mai. Kisi ki gulam nai hu
Mai jisse chahu bat kru shadi ki h naukar nhi hu jaise
Wife apne chalane ki koshish krti zid krti q ke usko feel hota h ke uska existence khtm ho rha jab k aisa nahi hai
Hubby sochta h ghar ka sab mai krta sab meri sune koi kuch na bole bus mai malik meri chalegi aise aise me dono me drad ajati hai
Kuch hubby wife ek dusre ki bat bina wajah katte hai aur wrong prove krne m mehnat krte phir chahe akele ho ya kisi k samne
Kuch ladies jan bujh kar backanswer krti h aur kehti mai galat nahi seh skti lekin wo bhul jati ne usey khana peena uske health ka khyal sab ek admi krta hai aur wo uska malik b h aur supritendent b aur jab wife apne be lagaam zban use krti to phir mar b khati h
Ego ka mtlb attitude nai hota hubby wife ke relationship m ego ka mtlb h jhuk jana hubby aksar jhukna psnd nahi krta aur wife ko hi jhukna pdta to relationship healthy rehti but jaha wife ego m rhe mai q jhuki mai q khud se sorry kahu nai q bat kru meri galti nai jaise soche to waha wo hubby ke dil se utar jati yaha tk m hubby usse nfrat krta h
Relationship m hone bad agar dono m narazgi ho to b sath rehna h lekin phir wo narazgi gusse ka vajh banti jo slow poison m change hoti h phir wo ekduje ko preshan krte aur neecha dikhate bat cut krte aur phir Nafrat paida hoti to gali shuru hoti then hath uthana phur alag
Relationship ki ga
di ko ache se chalane ke lie ek ko recessive banna pdega aur aur ko dominant tb dono ache se rhege but jaha dono hi apna dimag lagaye to gadi na idhar chalegi na udhar bus apas m uljhege islie
Agar do shyane relationship m hai to
Kisi ek ko sacrifice krna pdta
Dono sacrifice krte smjhdar dikhate usually ye love marriage m hota h
Aise mahol m bacha ho to wo baghi ho jata h q ke wife hubby ko jawab nai de skti to bacho ke dimag m poison bhar deti h jisse bachhe bap k b nai hote na ma se zyada attach rehte aise do logo ke ego se family barbad ho jati h
Hubby aur papa ko equal rkhe to bahot sari baaten smjh ayegi jaise papa ke samne jawab dete kia nai waise hubby b apka leader h jawab do to jawab aur buri trah milega
Aur agar chup rho aur bat suno chahe achi lage na laage to hubby apse khush rhega
Har admi apne ghar m raja hota h aur wife bache uski prja q ke wo rat din unki hi liye kam krta hai khoon paseena bahata hai to wo haq se dantta h pyar b krta h kabhi gussa dikhata hai aur bacho ko to itna nahi lekin wife ko wo age peeche hi rkhna chahta h aise me agr wife pe chahe to kitne b restrictions laga deta h jaisee
Admi sochta h wife Usk Ghar walo se chugli krti hogi islie call band
Wife ko koi behkata h jhagda krne islie ana jana band
Wife ko koi chede nai islie loose dress jo hubby ko psnd ho
Apne. Psmd ke dress pehmata h q ke wo uski doll hoti h
Apne mrzi ki har bat pe han kehne lagata hai aur b baht kuch aur wife ko manna zaruri b h majburi b
Nasir Mlg Ug:
1. Aapsy behtar mujhe nhi snjh skta koi
2. Aapsy zyda pyar aur care koi kr hi nhi skta
3. Durso ki trh nhi ho aap
4. Loyal ho helpful ho
5. As a parent bhi kitna smjhate seekhate
6. Glt nhi kehte. .jo sach h vahi kehte chahe bura hi q na lge
7. Kitna bhi pareshan kru ghussa kruu... Sath rhete humesha
Nasir Mlg Ug:
Sbse achi quality btati hu aapki
Ek bache ki life , gf , frd, wife ko bahut behtar smjhte ho
Aapko pta hai normally kya kya prblms aati jo aapne apni life m already find out krliya..
Aur unka solution bhi bahut soch smjh kr socha aapne
Har ek prblm ko kaise solve kre u better knww....
Nasir Mlg Ug:
Aapki thinking bahut achi h logical sochte , positive rhete, point to point bt krte, hard work krte , silent ho faltu bt nhi krte, caring, loving, strong, kind, loyal, practical, responsible, mature, creative, capable, sensitive, motivational, self confident, patience rhkte, every prblm solving skill, trustworthy, fearless, genius nd unique hoo
Well mannered ho, brave ho
Sincere ,understanding nd independent ho
Straightforward
Proper vision hai...
Khud ko har environment m adapt kr lete
Bs itna enough h
Aap jaise bhi ho sirf mere hoo
Bakiyon se alg ho aur bahut ache hoo
Aur mujhe bahut pyar krte
Aur bahut care bhii
Nasir Mlg Ug:
Sbse pehly toh aap bahut ache insaan ho... Helpful nature h aapka.. Kise k bare m glt nhi sochte... Koi aapky sath bura bhi kre toh aap acha hi kroge uske sath aur acha hi sochoge
Aur glt kiya bhi ho toh bhool jaoge...
Aur koi zyda bura kre toh aap vaisa hi treat kroge jaisa usne kiya
Aapko sbse zyda dar allah se lgta.... Isliye glt krne se darte hoo... Aur jo unhone aapko diya h aap usme bahut khush hoo
Aapko khud ko humesha develop krne ka sochte... Achai ko apnate... Aur ek acha insaan bnna chahte... Aur jutha dikhava nhi kyuki aapko psnd hi nhi b yeh sb
Aapka ghussa khrb h thoda aur ziddi bhi ho aur zyda sote aur thode aalasi.. .. Baki aap perfect ho har kaam m
Dusro se alg aap q ho pta h... Bs aapki achi thinking aur manners ki vjh se
Jo mujhee bahut bahut psnd h
Aur sache ho man k ache ho
Cheat kr hi nhi skte isliye befikr hu ab
Actually 2 saal se sath hu apky... Itne mature nhi thi aur na hu.... Aapne mera har waqt sath diya... Chahe khushi k pal ho ya dukh k... Humesha meri prblm m aap aage rhe ho apna kaam chodh kr...
Meri choti choti nadan vali galtiyon se daanta km seekhaya aur smjhaya zyda koi aur hota toh chid jata meri harkton pr..
Ghussa kiya zidh kiya pyar se smjhaya...
Aur sbse imp ki aap mujhe priority dete..mujhse baahut hi zydaa pyaar krte... Otherwise aap toh itne ache ho ki koi bhi mil jaye aapko.... Lakin phir bhi sbko tukra kr bs mujhe chah... Aur starting se lekr abhi tk. .jb jb jhagda hua brkup ka hua toh clear saaf saaf kehte aur smjhate meri glti kya h.... Kya jo m soch rhi voh sahi bhi h
Koi aur hota toh kya mujhe apna maan kr sb smjhata
Glt raste pr jane se rokta
Mera fayeda uthane ki kosish krta... Mujhe impress krne k liye bahut gift ghumata pherrta...
Lakin aapne aapni baaton se impress kiya aapki soch se aur kitna sache hoo
Nhi toh duniya m bahut log h jo juth bolte, glt kaam krte toh chupate.... Lakin aap nhi ho vaiseeeee
Kya kya nhi seekhaya mujhe aapne... Mobile pr email insta viber tele pic ko kaise transfer krte ... Kaise rhete... Kaise exercise....kaise bolte baat krte... Gaali se dur rhka aur gnde logo se gndi website se... Kon seekhata aisa aaj kal bs vahi jisko aapki care koo...
Nasir Mlg Ug:
Aaj ka din aapka jaisa bhi gya ho acha bura lakin aane vala din aap aaj se behtar bnate jana...
Aap aapne goal se peeche ho toh sad mt hoo...aur mehnat kro khud ko strong aur positive rhko toh sb easily gain krte chle jaoge
Aap bahut strong ho jaan.... Aapke liye sb easy haii bs khud ko weak mt pdhne dena..okay
Kuch likho jan mai zinda hu abhi to padh skta mrne bad likhogi to padh b na pauga
Nasir Mlg Ug:
Socha na tha life mai mujhe aisa insaan milega jo mujhse zyda mujhko behtar smjhega...
Bhrosa na tha is duniya pr aur na duniyan valo..
Bachpan se hi soch rhka tha duniya m log bahut selfish aur mtlabi hote... Phir bhi dimag ki na sunke ek baar bharosa kiya jo tut gya...
Na koi acha dost tha jisey apni dil ki baat share kr sku...
Andar hi andar udass si rehne lgii
Ghutan se honi lgi toh ajnabiyon se baat krne lgi... Kuch bure hote lakin sb nhi..
Meri hi trh tuta hua bikhra hua meri hi jaisi soch vala inssan mujhe mila...
Phir bhi dil n bhrosa na kiya
" ek baar jb DIL tut jaye toh dubara bhrosa krne ki himmat nhi hoti "
" duniya m jb aye toh hum pehle se kise ko jnte nhi thy.... Jb mile baat kiya tbhi toh smjhe janne ki kosish ki "
Meine bhi vahi kiya...
Ek baar phir bhrosa kiya
Usne apne dil ka haal sunaya aur meine apne..
Ek dusre ko smjhne ki kosish ki
Har jo choti choti baatein ek parents apne bacchon ko seekhate.. Vaise hi usne mujhe treat kiya..
Bolna nhi aata tha toh bolna seekha
Apni baat izhar krta nhi aata tha
Durso k samne apni baat rhkne nhi aati thi, unhe smjhana nhi aata tha....
Meri har prblm ko dur krne k liye hi shyd voh meri zindagi m aaya tha
Kbhi kbhi lgta shyd bhagwan n hi meri help krne usey bheja...
" jb koi prblm m hota hai toh bhagwan se pray krta toh bhagwan khud aa toh nhi skte lakin apna msg kisey k through zrur bhej dete "
Usne mujhe smjhne ki kosish krii... Meri thinking ko jana...
Usne mujhe kbhi bhi fake world m nhi rhka.., jo sach h vahi dikhaya
" parents bhi apne bachon ko juthi duniya m jeena nhi seekhate...
Real world ka samna krna seekhate hai "
Mere liye usne khud ko puri duniya bna liya
Jb jb parents ki zrurt hoti
Bhai, bhen, doston ki kami mehsus hoti....
voh har waqt mere sath raha...
Mujhe kuch nhi aata tha na bolna na sahi se sona na bath lena na sahi se apni baatein kise se share krna...
Voh kehta tha jo bhi dil m hai sb mujhse share kroo... Jaha jaha glti hogi voh sudharega...
" jaise parents apne bachon ko apna part mante vaise hi usne mujhe apna smjh liya tha "
Na jane kaise rishta tha humara
Khoon se toh nhi lakin dil se zrur judh gya tha....
Ek saal bde thy lakin zindagi ko ache se smjhte thy
Har situation ko pyar se handle krna jnte thy
Apni life m kuch paya nhi unhone humesha saha hai aur har ek situation ko handle krte krte voh seekhte chle gye...
" bahut log hote hai jo prblm se dur bhagte..
face krne k vjh har maan lete "
Bt unhone khud ko improve kiya har ek wy m unhone khud pr mehant ki aur behtar bnate gye...
"Zruri nahi sbki life ek jaise ho koi khush hai toh koi dukhi "
Mai humesha questions krti rheti thi...
Kyu sb equal nahi
Aur voh har waqt pyar se smjhate thy... Kehte thy god n yeh duniya bahut soch smjh kr bnai hai
Har cheez balance hai...
Agr life m dukh hai toh sukh bhi ayege.. Sb balance hai
Aur humhe struggle krna pdhta har prblm se guzarna pdhta aur usey humhe bahut kuch seekhne ko milta...
Voh aaj jo bhi hai jaise bhi unki khud ki mehnat ka result hai...
Puri immandari k sath Mehnat krna humara kaam hai lakin phal dena upr vale ka kaam hai... .
Voh har prblm ko deeply smjhte hai.. Har ek wy m aur khud se hi question puchte rhete thy aur mujhe bhi yahi seekhate
" seekhana bdo ka kaam lakin seekhna humara "
Mujhe unse baat krna bahut acha lgne lga
Har waqt kuch na kuch naya seekhne ko milta tha
Actually meine unhe kbhi dekha nhi tha unka impression mujh pr pda apni achai aur good thinking se..
Unka thinking unique hai voh sochte hai good looking se bs attract kiya jata hai lakin achi thinking se logo ka dil jeeta jata haii...
Unki baatein seedhe dil ko touch krtii
Mai itni bhi mature nhi thi lakin jo bhi acha lga tha aur chahti thi ki yeh khubi bhi mujh m hoo toh m diary m note down krti thii...
" ek baar insaan nhi seekhta lakin smjhta hai...
Aur agr vahi baar baar socho pdho toh dimag m bas jata "
Zindagi ek khubsoorat sa safar agr hai jeene aajaye toh sb asan hai , nhi toh sb muskil sa lgne lgta...
Aur uske liye humhe ache bure halaton se guzarna pdhta...
Waqt ek baar chla jata toh dubara nahi aata isliye humh
e har pal ko khul kr jeena chahiye....
Achi yaadon ko sehmate kr rhkna chahiye...
Aise hi hai voh
Voh kehte hai ki agr acha waqt na ho toh acha bna lena chahiye...
Choti choti yaadon ko sehmate kr rhkte hai... Kuch achi baatein jo dil ko chu jati usey voh blog bnakr save krlete...
Jiske sath bhi waqt guzarte hai toh khul kr jeete...
Har glti maaf krdete
Aur humesha sath dete aur achi baatein bhi seekhate
Kbhi bura nhi chahte....
Voh jnte hai har ek ka sath zindagi bhr ka nahi hota
Ek na ek din jana pdhta
Toh voh apnaa best se best dene ki kosish krte...
Jaise jaise hum grow hote hai..
Dheere dheere mature hone lgte hai...mentally strong bnne lgte
Age k acc. Humare body m changes k sath sath humari thinking m bhi changes aate hai..
Jaise jb chote thy toh kuch smjh hi nhi thi... Jaisa mumma papa bolte voh krte.. Jo bhi lakr dete chup chap le lete..
Lakin jb thoda bde hote toh ziddh krne lgte...
Dusro se compare krne lgte
Phir jb thoda aur bde hote toh situation ko smjhne ki kosish krte... Apne acc. Aur us time aapke sochne ki sahmta itne nhi hoti aapko lgta hai ki aap hi sahi ho baki sb glt...
Jb tk mature nhi hote tb tk aapko bdo ki baatein glt hi lgtii...
Lakin hum us waqt nhi smjhte ki voh humare ache k liye hi bolte h
Life m hum bahut gltiyan krte lakin bde maaf krte jate... Voh sochte hai
Glti ki hai toh nxt time nhi repeat krnege aur usey usko kuch seekhne ko mila....
Aise hi life m agr kuch cheez nhi aati toh peeche nhi hatna chahiye... Atleast krna chahiyee....
Bahut log hote hai jo aapko aage bdhne se rokte aur bura sochte
Bt humhe kise pr depend nhi rehna chahiye... [ road humesha flat nhi hoti thora uncha neecha hoti h aise hi aapko seekhne m koi help nhi bhi kre toh thoda upr neeche hoga hi..
Aata nahi tha atleast try kiya yeh bdi baat thi...isliye humhe kise pr depend nhi rehna chahiye aur apne upr bhrosa rhkna chahiye
Kyuki duniya m koi aisa kaam nhi jisey kiya nahi jaa skta ]
Humara dar humhe aage bdhne nhi deta..
Age hum dar ki vjh se haar maan jaye toh kaise aage bdhenge kaise seekhenge... Waqt dubara nhi aata
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