baaat

Jan bat krne ke bhi kuch usool hote hai

Jaise 

bat aise jaga se shuru kre jis point pe sab agree ho

Aise bat na kre jisse direct hurt ho jaise direct ye kehna ke apki ye family hai

Jitna possible ho pyar ke sath bat kre

Gussa na kre na strict words use kee

Ye na kahe ke ek puri trah se galat h

Insan apne se bado ki bat to sun leta h lekijn choto ki nahi  isliye puri maturity se ek ek word ka soch smjh kar use krna zaruri hai

Jo bat krni h wo point to point krna aur aise krna ke wo aapke suggestions ho 

Koi bad habit ko le kr strict words use nahi krnna

Mai apse ye chah rha ke aap apne parents aur bhai behn ko ek sath le kr baitho aur kahi ke 

Ye hamari family meeting hai aur uske kuch rules hai 

yaha na koi gussa krega na chillayega na apne Maa ke ghar walo ki side lega hum sab ek family hai aur hamari family problems ko hame hi solve krna chahiye yaha jo bhi bat hogi wo kisi ko pata nhi chalna chahiye kisi ko bhi nahi

Aur jab ek insan bat krega to dusra na taunt marega na tedhi bat krega jab ek bat kre to sab ko pehle sunna hoga

Maine bahit sochne bad ye smjha hai ke jab do logo ki soch nai milti ho ya misunderstanding rehti ho to jhagda hota h ye aisa h ke ek kahe glass half bhara h dusra kahe half Khali hai

Jab ek ladki ki shadi hoti hai to parents apne Jan se zyada pyari beti dete hai aur chahte hai wo bahot khush rhe aur bahot achha ladka dhundte hai jo best se bhi best ho smjhdar ho mehnat krne wala ho

Aur ladki apna mayka chod kr sasural me apne hubby ke bharose hi jati hai apna sab kuch chod kr jati hai aur uske ghar ko apna ghar man leti hai aur apna sansar basa leti h wahi ladke ko bhi ghar walo se alag hona pdta hai ek alag ghar me le kr rehta h aur wo wife uski family ban jati hai aur dono ek dusre pe bharosa kre to hasi khushi rehte hai

Lekin 

Agar ladki ke ghar wale ko hubby kuch kahe to usey bura lagega hi mere bhai ko b koi kuch kahe to mai to jhagda krlugi aur hubby ke ghar wale ko kahe to wo galiyan de skta hath utha skta lekin wife ye nahi krti bhai agar Kal wife aur mere beech kuch ho to decision ye soch kr lena k wo apna ghar chod kr ayi hai aur mera nature tu janta hu hai

Hamne Bachpan se dekha hai kabhi shanti nahi hui sab log kaise happy rehte lekin yaha pe un logo ke liye jhagde hote jo hamare family me rehte hi nahi hai 

Kon jhagda krwata nahi krwata mai ye nahi bol rhi bus itna ke log to hame khush dekhna hi nahi chahenge to ham unki bato me Aa kr apni hi family members ke sath misunderstanding ko achhe se clear krna chahiye 

Papa paise kamate hai ghar bhi unka hai jaha chahe uda de ya kisi ko de de lekin mumma ko bhi janne ka haq hai

Bhai behn ki help krna sahi hai lekin kab tk? Unke bachhe bade hue h wo ham se zyada khsh hai zaruri to nai life time hi unhe hamare zarurat ho 

Jhagda krna ya alag ho jana ye to solution hai hi nahi aur rahi bat papa aur mumma dono ko bp ka problems hai aur papa ko liver ka problems bhi hai bahot takleef se rehte hai hamse dur mai ye chahti ho ke jab b kisi ko problem ho to wo apas me suljha le ya family meeting me bat kre hum bachhe kuch sahi decision me help krege mai to beti hu aaj apke ghar Kal kisi aur ke ghar bhej dege lekin kia Mai khush reh paugi?