Noorie prospective about relationship

Relationship :

Relationship bahut common word hai lakin iskaa mtlb hum ache se smjh jaye toh zindagi bahut asan ho jatii....simply it indicates "rishta" or we can say aapas ka mel-jol

Har ek insaan zindagi akele nhi guzar sktaa...bs rishta hi hota jo humko dusro se jodh kr rhkta hai.

Humare sukh dukh m vahi kaam aaty hai...

Like jo aaj humare sath hai , hum unko value nhi dety...lakin jb voh humari zindagi se dur chla jaye tb uski kami mehsus hone lgte...uski har ek baat yaad aane lgtii...

Jb sath hoty tb koi kdhar nhi krta...jb vahi insaan dur chla jaye toh kdhar krty...

Hum apni life m humesha rishton m kami nikalty aye h jb humhe apno k sth har ek pal enjoy krna tha...us pal humne kamiyan nikalne m lge rhe..naraj huye..aur dusro ko bdalna chaha...

" Rishton ko bdalne ki vjh humhe smjhna chahiye jisey rishtey majbut bnty...majbur nahi "

Aaj sbko perfect chahiye sb kuchh...lakin hum har insaan thinking ko perfect toh nhi bna skty...

"Relationship perfect ho na ho lakin relation perfect hona chahiye"

Aaj sbko perfection chahiye ...sb iske hi peeche bhagty rhety....

Hum sb ko change nhi kr skty apny according...so its better jaise voh hai hum unhe vaise hi accept kre...jisey hum relation acha nd strong bnegaa....

Rishton ki value krnaa bahut zruru hai tbhi hum ek happy life spnd kr skty... without family , frds , etc ...life ka koi mtlb hi nahi...it become boring...

Rishton m hum pyar milta bhi hai aur dena bhi padhta...like a coin..uske do pehlu hoty vaise hi relationship nibhane k lene dono trf se kosish ki jaty...

Relationship m humhe bahut se cheezon ka dhyan rhkna hotaa...kuch rishty bahut nazuk hoty...

Agr hum relationship nibha rhe h toh sbse pehly trust krna zruri hota...kuch cheezen humhe sunni hoty toh kuch smjhani hoti..

Bahut sacrifice krna hotaa...

Choti choti baaton ka dhyan rhkna hota...toh kbhi situation k acc.apna nazariya bdalna hotaa..

Most imp humhe kbhi judge nhi kena chahiye samne vale ko...usey rishton m duriyan aaty...

Nd jo bhi past m glti hui usey accept kr ke aage bdhna chahiye...aur baar baar yaad dilvana bhi nhi chahiye jisye rishton m khatas paida hotii...

Past ko accept kr ke present m jeena chahiyee....( Past m jo glti ki usey seekh milty h...toh vahi glti future m repeat nhi krna chahiye )

Gandhi ji said that relationship is based on four principles - respect , understanding , acceptance nd appriciation